Why are people so Cruel?

[WalterB]

I damn sure agree. It seems that they aren't taught that you can get angry at something without going out and getting a gun.....

[carl goldfinger]

Don't worry about these bad people, Vicky

You are a gorgeous human. I had the honor to meet you in person.
Even it was short, it was very intense for me, and what I will never forget
is the radiation of the beauty of your personality, that was shining on me.

You have build something great in this business, please go on with it.
Here in the forum, I feel fine with all the friends I found over the years...


You used to say: 'If you have nothing good to say about people, then better say nothing'
Sometimes you must speak out! Even it is to warn your friends about those haters... and to vent your anger or frustration. 'Shared sorrow is half sorrow', we use to say in Germany.

What you should never do is, to be kind to these bad people. They don't deserve your kindness. Most times, you don't know anything about their motivation. It can be frustration, religious reasons, wickedness, madness, low level IQ, just hate of everything, a bad life, envy... etc... these people have an uggly mind and you can do nothing to change them!

What you can do is to protect yourself, your friends and your people against them.
Show those evil people their own picture in the mirror & let them suffer from their own evilness. Then simply ingnore them & let them die alone ... this is what they deserve!

What I often read in you words is a kind of 'Mother Theresa' philosophy. You want to heal all the plagues in this world... but this is impossible. Don't waste your time with that.



Carl

[Davest]

"What I cannot love, I overlook." --Anais Nin (1903-1977), Writer

When I am walking in the woods and come across a big pile of shit, I don't wonder why it smells bad, or try to make it smell better. I just avoid it (don't want to bring any of it home with me on my shoes), ignore it and get back to enjoying all the lovely things associated with a walk in the woods. The anonymity of the Internet allows people to be as wonderful or as shitty as they like. I always wonbder why some people choose to have a shitty attitude, because the world is often a reflection of our attitude. A loving person lives in a loving world, and all that. Ignoring the dipshits isn't easy, I get caught up in it myself, quite often. But the sooner I can put crap behind, the better my day is.

Sending hugs and love.

[stickyvicky]

Staff Seargent Davest those are words of wisdom! I'm going to remember that example!

[lance_s]

"What I cannot love, I overlook." --Anais Nin (1903-1977), Writer

When I am walking in the woods and come across a big pile of shit, I don't wonder why it smells bad, or try to make it smell better. I just avoid it (don't want to bring any of it home with me on my shoes), ignore it and get back to enjoying all the lovely things associated with a walk in the woods. The anonymity of the Internet allows people to be as wonderful or as shitty as they like. I always wonbder why some people choose to have a shitty attitude, because the world is often a reflection of our attitude. A loving person lives in a loving world, and all that. Ignoring the dipshits isn't easy, I get caught up in it myself, quite often. But the sooner I can put crap behind, the better my day is.

Sending hugs and love.

"The anonymity of the Internet allows people to be as wonderful or as shitty as they like." Something I learnt from years on dating sites: The internet can be good at hiding identity; it's not very good at masking personality.

[Davest]

"The anonymity of the Internet allows people to be as wonderful or as shitty as they like." Something I learnt from years on dating sites: The internet can be good at hiding identity; it's not very good at masking personality.

It rather seems to amplify personality traits, both good and otherwise.

[Glenn2164]

I don't know why this is said, about you, Vicky. I can't believe it. As you stated, why do they follow you, if they want to make such stupid comments !! I agree with the other statements, made here, and the best thing is to ignore them and I bet they wouldn't be game, to say these things, face to face.

[danamend]

Reminds me of a T shirt I saw, I'm a people person but then people ruined it for me.

[stickyvicky]

No they weren't people who were following me, I did a trade with another girl, where I posted her picture and she posted my picture and the idea is to send each other followers.

She got nothing but Love from my followers, it seems that the people who follow me are a much nicer more civilized crowd in general. (Just like when girls come do cam shows on VNA live, they are shocked how nice everyone is compared to streammate or my free cams.)

I looked at the other girls pictures that she did trades with afterwards, and her followers were equally mean, some worse to them as well. So it wasn't just me, that whole group just seems to get off on hurting other people for no reason.

I am going to do more research on people before I agree to do a trade with them. IE I will look at more of their posts and look at the other trades they have done in the past.

[CaptBunk]

Old saying here in GA, "The squeaky wheel gets the grease."
Welcome to the world of dealing with the public. As a former Athlete at a high level I was "judged" harshly at times, however, back in those days it wasnt as direct (internet).
People want attention but have to get it by tearing others down. Rather than give them what they want, ignore them.
You are (adjective adjective adjective adjective ) & have been (I remember you from your early days ) for a long time.
??Not like you to allow insecurity to creep in to your thinking, so like they would say on the "Sopranos," "fuhgitaboutit!"

[Andrew35]

people are assholes, you look great Vicky