Yes I know and thank you for both of your advise. When we signed up we used Gunther's parents old address RR2, site9, they don't use those anymore cause no one knew where that was and it never asked what you do for work, but I do know I have to behave myself. Damn the gym just gets me so worked up though!!
Vicky that's so sad that she's done that to you! Like you say it's about the dogs and not about what a person wears. On a lighter note, I don't show any cleavage either
Why wouldn't she want attention at the gym, that is strange. When I danced and lived in Edmonton a girl I worked with was Miss Nude Edmonton. I loved going to the gym with her. Guys would always be there, of course just to help us out.
I know I made the mistake of thinking we were really friends... she always tells me all her problems, cries on my shoulder about things, asks for my advice, what would I do if.... inviting me to things... so I thought I could start to be a little more honest with her. She knows nothing about what I do and I hate that. How can you really be my friend if you don't know what I do? So I told her I was gonna go to Caliente resort one time in tampa, to get rid of tanlines, and that I had spent a lot of time at other nudist resorts in the past. I told her that a lot of swingers frequented those resorts, but never said anything about me ever swinging. Well she freaked a little, that was when her whole attitude changed about me and she started finding things to pick on, like my shorts were too short, or I look too sexy at the gym. She said "well I guess i don't really know you at all, the only thing we have in common is our love of dogs and love of boxing fitness. It was all downhill from there. I guess I was testing her to see how much I could really tell her and I found out quick. Guess it's better to know than spend more time thinking you really have a friend when you don't. Still sucks though.
i'm sorry to hear that. i understand you wanting to be cautious about who you tell about your work. After all, your private life is just that, private, if she's bad mouthing you behind your back it has to stop. Small narrow minded people need to be educated about the fun side of life, lol
I get it that you kept things from her because you didn't know if you could trust her, your lifestyle is not for others to know unless you want to share it and you shared a little bit to see if she was trustworthy. if you make her realise that, i hope she's a good enough person to realise what she's been doing.
i think if you make her realise, put it on her to respect your privacy, she'll be so ashamed for treating you that way. i would hope she's a good enough person to feel that way.
And one more thing: If she's single and alone, she wishes she had fun like you do !
I don't know if i'd give her a 2nd chance but maybe i would do like a probation thing. lol
No you don't get it. She won't go to the gym with me anymore because she says I embarrass her because guys look at us. She doesn't want to hang out with me anymore, of course I would give her a second chance, but she doesn't want one. She has already been judge and jury and decided that I am not a good person because of the things I like. She has also criticized me because I get my nails and toes done every week, she thinks it's a waste of money, and she doesn't like the fact that I drive a corvette convertible either. We've had a lot of long conversations over it. She thinks that is extravagant. lol.. if only she knew the girls I know who buy purses for $800 and hair extensions for $3000. I don't think i'm an extravagant person at all.
I try to explain to her that if you don't have a little fun in your life you will go crazy. You need balance. Yes, you need to work hard, donate to charities, work at shelters, but also save a little time to have fun because if you don't you will be miserable. It's enough to drive you crazy. That's what has happened to her. She worries about the elephants in Africa, the seals, the dancing bears, the polar bears, everything. She is single and doesn't have a lot of friends because it's all she talks about. She is on every committee and email campaign list going about chemicals in our foods, saving the planet, etc.. It's all good, but I keep telling her balance. She just doesn't get it.
So I totally understand why people in my industry really only have friends in the industry. Other people just don't "get" us. They either hate us or want to fuck us. lol... Anyway, sorry for derailing the thread.
Glad you at least got back into the gym Julie and didn't waste your money. Be careful ok?
stickyvicky wrote:No you don't get it. She won't go to the gym with me anymore because she says I embarrass her because guys look at us...
oh and i suppose her highness has never looked at anyone ever or looked at guy's abs, biceps or what's in their shorts ?
I bet she doesn't even wrinkle the sheets either.
lol
stickyvicky wrote:So I totally understand why people in my industry really only have friends in the industry. Other people just don't "get" us. They either hate us
Haters gonna hate. And you know why ?
stickyvicky wrote:or want to fuck us. lol...
oh you poor poor thing what's that like? i wish i looked half as good as you so every girl wood want to fuck me
LOL
Stick with me sweetie, i'll always have your back
But fair warning, if we do show up at a gym together, everyone will be looking at us !
And pointing. At
Mostly.
Cuz yunno if i take my belt off i could cause a flabalanche, ya !
next time you see her just tell her this:
and remember: 2 outta 4 for me ain't bad, i'm halfway there lol
It s area;l shame that you lost a workout partner but I thing its even sadder that the dogs at the selter lost out I bet you are great with them and it makes ahuge difference that you go there. Its a shame the ,most people don't realize the implications that the actions have on the world. I think that sadly people think "I don't matter" so what difference does it make what i do . I think if everybody realized every action you take could make the world a better place,we would all ne in a better place . And Vicky you should also thank her for the 48=looks like 28 comment because it is so true I think most women half your age wouldn't want to be next to you in a gym
The dogs at the shelter are not gonna lose out, I love them too much. I'll still go cause they need me, Rokkerr comes with me and a lot of the people there volunteer and paid are very nice to me. I'm sure they talk about me and my shorts, hey at least I can provide entertainment value, lol.. not gonna let it get to me....
Vicky , You have such a HUGE HEART don't let it get to you . Keep iup the great work you make a difference in the world and thats the best thing anybody can do
Yes Vicky, you are totally right with your analysis of your "friend".
I had a similar case with a friend from an animal welfare club.
He was spending his entire freetime to "save" animals.
It was already suspicious to me... because he couldn't talk about anything else.
Then, on day, he took away 2 dogs from a homeless woman, meaning, the woman didn't care enough for the dogs.
He took them away without telling her!
A month later one dog got killed... too old, too weak, no one would pay his needed meds & nobody liked to have him, except the homeless woman.
That was way too much for me & I broke with him.
A little later he gave it up & went to Joyce Meyer and got her "believer".
Another friend told me, that the "friend" aways had trouble with his wife.
I'm sure he wasn't sexually satislied & put his energy on "caring animals".
He better had watched porn and jerked off to get some satisfaction, and then decide what to do in life.
Anyway...
I think satisfaction/balance in life has something to do with this workout program thread.
One without the other is useless...
You should always care for your sexual saisfaction& balance and do your best to keep your body fit, even it is just a little bit.
Carl
Intelligent ppl are only intelligent because they invent things to make their life easier, lazy bastards...like me...
stickyvicky wrote:The dogs at the shelter are not gonna lose out, I love them too much. I'll still go cause they need me, Rokkerr comes with me and a lot of the people there volunteer and paid are very nice to me. I'm sure they talk about me and my shorts, hey at least I can provide entertainment value, lol.. not gonna let it get to me....
I had a fast OMFG workout today. I'm at my cousins dairy farm helping with the seeding. This morning I was in the barn for the milking, one of the cows her calf he still gives milk too. I took a pial of milk to him an like an idiot forgot to check the latch was secure. I was holding th pail so he could drink and the cow sees the open gate and comes through. She sees me near her calf and runs at me, like the nice girl I am I set the pail down so he could finish drinking and turn to run to the fence. The ground is kind if wet with mud and cow shit and I'm tunning as fast as I can go. I grabbed the top of the fence and jumped over it as she ran into it. She broke 2 boards, but if she hits me I would have been wallpapered to it. My heart was racing like I ran 10 miles, ah life on the farm, damn I miss it
I wish I had somebody like Vicky to go to the gym with. First, she's all AWESOME and what not, personality that is. (She's super AMAZING looking--didn't think it needed to be pointed out for this post, but what the hell.)
Secondly, I'd have all the guys at the gym envious of me. "How's that ugly dude get that hot chick?" or "Lucky Bastard!" Then the women would start to look at me differently. Yeah, that would be the life!!!!!! :-)
Perfection is not attainable, but if we chase perfection we can catch excellence.
what's that like? i wish i looked half as good as you so every girl wood want to fuck me 
2 outta 4 for me ain't bad, i'm halfway there lol
