So I hired a 19 year old to help me with my website.....
- Rotten Rob
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Ok I'm having a moral dilemma...
I've always been "into" mature women, which is pretty much why I am a fan of Vicky and all of her VNA women. Young girls always make me nervous- maybe it's a high school thing, but I think they can be too unpredictable... I mean they haven't had a chance to figure out what they want in life yet, right?!
So as I was saying I hired a 19 year old college student to help me with my site, write some articles help me with promotions, yadda yadda. And I'm having a dilemma, right now she is researching Jenna Haze and I have her looking at her videos (for research) and I feel wrong, like I'm corrupting her?
Don't get me wrong, she is into it. But why do I feel it's only a matter of time before I have my camera out and I am filming her and her friend eating each others assholes..?!
I guess it's the age thing, if she was 21 or 22 I wouldn't be typing this, but 19?
Thoughts, advice?? Didn't know where else to post this and ask for advice?
-RR
I've always been "into" mature women, which is pretty much why I am a fan of Vicky and all of her VNA women. Young girls always make me nervous- maybe it's a high school thing, but I think they can be too unpredictable... I mean they haven't had a chance to figure out what they want in life yet, right?!
So as I was saying I hired a 19 year old college student to help me with my site, write some articles help me with promotions, yadda yadda. And I'm having a dilemma, right now she is researching Jenna Haze and I have her looking at her videos (for research) and I feel wrong, like I'm corrupting her?
Don't get me wrong, she is into it. But why do I feel it's only a matter of time before I have my camera out and I am filming her and her friend eating each others assholes..?!
I guess it's the age thing, if she was 21 or 22 I wouldn't be typing this, but 19?
Thoughts, advice?? Didn't know where else to post this and ask for advice?
-RR
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I don't know your age, but there are plenty of 40 - 50 year old men 'corrupting' 18, 19, 20 year-old women out there. Does that make it right? No. But, does that make it wrong? No, also. I would think if she was offended, she would say so and would walk. At 18 or 19, she is legal, so what are you worrying about? Do you want to bed her? Are you corrupting her? Would it be different if a 22 Y-O guy was showing her porn?
I would say how you treat her would mean a lot. If you get what you want, then throw her out, then you are wrong. But if she wants to see what's there, and if she wants to experiment, and if you treat her with courtesy and respect, if you talk to her and answer her questions intelligently, you may be giving her a good education into one aspect of life. If you can discuss with her what you see as the dangers of being "loose," if you can show her that she can do erotic potography and still make and maintain her own set of moral values, then maybe you are doing her right. There are plenty of young women out there that do nude photography, but not hardcore porn. If you alert her that there are plenty of men out there that will try to talk her into certain aspects just to have sex with her while cheating her out of her money, if you will teach her that she has rights, that she is her own person, that she should follow her gut feelings, you may be doing her a favor.
And if she wants to experiment on the side? As long as you are honest with her up front. I'm not sure I see anything bad there.
If an 18 or 19 YO girl came to me and wanted to play? I'm sure many peope would think that was bad, legal or not. But, there are so many variables to each situation. It shows a certain caring for you to even think about it. Like I said, there are many who would specifically try to steer her toward the bedroom. But you are more worried about moral issues. I guess I would have to say that there is no one answer.
It would be interesting to hear what the VNA ladies think. I hope they chime in. I think of Vicky, who was the Wild Child in her earlier days. Vicky, how did you think then vs how you feel now?
I would say how you treat her would mean a lot. If you get what you want, then throw her out, then you are wrong. But if she wants to see what's there, and if she wants to experiment, and if you treat her with courtesy and respect, if you talk to her and answer her questions intelligently, you may be giving her a good education into one aspect of life. If you can discuss with her what you see as the dangers of being "loose," if you can show her that she can do erotic potography and still make and maintain her own set of moral values, then maybe you are doing her right. There are plenty of young women out there that do nude photography, but not hardcore porn. If you alert her that there are plenty of men out there that will try to talk her into certain aspects just to have sex with her while cheating her out of her money, if you will teach her that she has rights, that she is her own person, that she should follow her gut feelings, you may be doing her a favor.
And if she wants to experiment on the side? As long as you are honest with her up front. I'm not sure I see anything bad there.
If an 18 or 19 YO girl came to me and wanted to play? I'm sure many peope would think that was bad, legal or not. But, there are so many variables to each situation. It shows a certain caring for you to even think about it. Like I said, there are many who would specifically try to steer her toward the bedroom. But you are more worried about moral issues. I guess I would have to say that there is no one answer.
It would be interesting to hear what the VNA ladies think. I hope they chime in. I think of Vicky, who was the Wild Child in her earlier days. Vicky, how did you think then vs how you feel now?
I can resist everything except temptation.
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Just got off of the phone with her, I'm sending her to a wet T shirt contest at Pitt's campus. I was very virtuous and professional, I didn't tell her to get up on stage and get her titties wet for the site, which is what was in the back of my mind...!
You both make very good points...! I'm sure she isn't as sweet and innocent as she seems. I guess if she is going to be "corrupted", it's better to come from someone who can help steer her in the right direction, like you said Walt - she obviously is curious, and if she is going to pull the proverbial I want to get naked on film, at least by us working together, there will hopefully be a level of trust.
I'll be sure to keep you guys posted. She's excited like a little school girl when I got off the phone with her. I'll invite her to the next stripper photoshoot and see her reaction.
You both make very good points...! I'm sure she isn't as sweet and innocent as she seems. I guess if she is going to be "corrupted", it's better to come from someone who can help steer her in the right direction, like you said Walt - she obviously is curious, and if she is going to pull the proverbial I want to get naked on film, at least by us working together, there will hopefully be a level of trust.
I'll be sure to keep you guys posted. She's excited like a little school girl when I got off the phone with her. I'll invite her to the next stripper photoshoot and see her reaction.
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Now why didn't I think of that? Senility setting in?? This would be great for her first foray into the world of posing for men, Rob. (I mean, besides you, lol.)
I can resist everything except temptation.
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How do I post photos on this site?? I'll post the only ones I own, the ones she sent me from her FB... Let me get off this clumsy iPhone and I'll post some....
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So we gave her the name Nikki Dawn, so what do you hornballs think? Does she have IT in her?
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I'll take "Nikki Dawn" for $1,000, Alex!
I smell a star, Rob. She certainly has the looks, and from what I can see, the body to match.
Stand aside, Stiffy. Let a Man in here!
I smell a star, Rob. She certainly has the looks, and from what I can see, the body to match.
Stand aside, Stiffy. Let a Man in here!
I can resist everything except temptation.
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Nikki's real cute Rotten Rob.
...And if you can't be with the one you love.., "Love the One You're With" -- Stephen Stills 1970
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Nikki started back to college this week. She decided NOT to pursue a career in "modeling" right now. I had set her up with a couple of local gigs and she would blow them off, and make excuses as to why she couldn't go to them.Benny wrote:Nikki looks nice!
You have an update for us on your situation at the office?
We all remember what 19 was like - 1 day you want to do this, and the next day you want to do that.
I think she is going to study computers - which is cool, cause she was able to help me on that end a lot.
So I didn't end up being a "bad influence" on her afterall - not to say that I didn't want to be...