Responding to "sexy" comments on Twitter...

[david tillinger]

Something Ive kind of been wondering about Twitter is how do models expect guys to respond to innuendo laden comments or photos. For example, if a model posts about being horny or some such, invariably guys respond with something about helping her with that.

Understanding that Twitter is a marketing tool and promoting the concept of a sexy woman who's always horny is good for business, I always wonder if models look at the responses as a positive or negative when we respond to it. Personally, Ive seen models respond both ways, either getting the joke & seeing it as affectionate teasing or being bitchy about it & cutting fans down for being pervs. Im interested in seeing the responses from models on this site, given how good they are about interaction with us in general.

[WalterB]

If a model posts that she's horny, then calls me a perv when I say "I'll help you with that," she's the one with the problem. Also, I'm a fast learner and will stay far away from her. I believe that all of the VNA ladies understand that we all are joking around, and that, when they carry on about having sex with us and we respond that we sure want to screw their brains out, they know that we all are kidding around, and I think they take it as a compliment that we think they are beautiful and desireable. At least I hope they know we love them and would never mean any disrespect.

[stickyvicky]

You reap what you sow right? How can you possibly tweet something sexy and not expect guys to respond in a sexy way? lol... hell I'd be very disappointed if they didn't! As long as it's done in a nice respectful way, and believe me, you can tell the difference.

[david tillinger]

I think what I see a lot is that many models (not the ones here) tend not to like their followers & view them only as a necessary evil. I think, as Vicky noted, there is a way to be respectful in a sexy response, playing along with it. But for that to be effective, the model has to be able to accept that fans aren't all bad or losers. Cool models, like the VNA girls (as Walter noted), get that. So many don't.

[Anthony_JK]

Now, there is one part of me that gets a real tickle out of an overheated fan who takes way too seriously a "sexy" tweet and considers it as his "attempt to get into her panties" moment...and then, when she attempts to respectfully and tactfully remind him that it's not that real, he goes off on a "you're such a evil effing slut/whore/tramp, I hope you get AIDS and die, or may you discover Jesus as your Lord and Savior" or some other rant. That type of douchebag makes things that much more difficult for those of us who truly respect sexy women for what they do for us (and to us).

On the other hand, though....as Vicky said, if you happen to be a professional sexual entertainer, part of the job will entail dealing with horny men with hard dicks (and horny women as well). No woman should be forced to endure dick pics against their will....but since the ultimate proof of the strength of the woman's sex appeal is indeed the hard penis (or the money shot), it's kinda hard (no pun intended.....maybe) to avoid such. It's all in how you approach it: if it's part of your job, or it's your personal pleasure. Not to mention...you are the one getting paid by these guys jerking off to you. If you can't handle that, there are other professions available. Mutual respect, mutual consent, mutual pleasure.

[david tillinger]

For the record, Anthony, I wasnt referring to responses from douchebags. Those guys deserve to be shelled. Im talking more about the sort of responses that are playing along with the model's joke as opposed to responses which take seem to really take the innuendo seriously.

I think last couple sentences in your second paragraph kind of sum up the type of model I don't like. The type that doesn't see it as her job to entertain us, but rather sees it as it being our job to financially support her. Like that we should make purchases based on the implied "closer relationship" of being a follower and getting to read her little innuendos, but that we should never presume that we have any value to her. That is why I appreciate models like Vicky & the other girls here, it is clear in every interaction that they do value their fans & its why they retain so much loyalty from them.

[Anthony_JK]

I feel what you are saying, David....I've had my share of dealing with both the real douches and the merely overheated.

Sometimes, though, it is hard to tell whether the model is acting the role (or, as I put it, "playing the slut") just for extending the image, or whether she really *is* horny looking for that particular reaction.

It doesn't bother me if you are only acting, as long as you appreciate that some will react as if it's more real. It's those who react so negatively who really don't belong in the business, if they don't understand that they really are selling sexual desire, not just memberships to a website.