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Is this even a topic that can be passed when the answer is no ? Seriously, all the women i have been with before I got married let me go through the back door but not my wife! I dont get it, all her friends say to give it a try and just to lube up, but she wont budge...

Anyone else go through this? Any advice?

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Has she ever tried it? Did she have a bad experience?

Anal is just not for me, so I can't help you. The VNA has a couple ladies who won't do it, so it's just like anything else, a matter of personal taste. Did you know this before you married her? I would say don't push it too hard or you could really alienate her.

Anal sex involves a bit of commitment on the woman's part. She has to prepare herself physically. Plus, not all women's anatomy can handle anal sex. For them, it can be a painful experience. If she wants to try it, she will let you know.

Honestly, I don't enjoy it at all, it hurts and I can't relax. The times I've done it I'm thinking like, oh please cum and get this over with, or don't you dare ask me to suck it. I'm sure anal is my only hang up about sex

Redd44 wrote:Anal sex involves a bit of commitment on the woman's part. She has to prepare herself physically. Plus, not all women's anatomy can handle anal sex. For them, it can be a painful experience. If she wants to try it, she will let you know.

Truer words couldn't have been spoken


Red44!

My last girlfriend wanted to try anal with me. I told her I won't stick anything in her ass and she can't stick anything in mine.

You need to talk to ShandaFay, Vince.

Ummm. Anal in my opinion is pleasurable, but for me it requires lots of trust & comfortability in a relationship. Being able to be comfy & trust your partner, for me, allows me to relax...not only for anal but for sex in general. Reaching that point in a relationship is what makes all of the difference for me. I've been lucky enough to have experienced/been in a relationship where all of my "walls" were let down to be able to "let it go & flow". By the time anal arrives in the sexual act, my body is very much so relaxed. I guess it depends on the couple along w/their likes & dislikes.

Some women's anatomy won't allow it & hopefully their partner understands.

He didn't answer since asking the original question. Has she ever tried it? I hate when people just say no, without even trying it. I used to think I would hate mushrooms, they just looked yucky, so always said NO, but then one day tried them, and turns out, I love mushrooms! So I hope she would at least try without just being stubborn and hard headed. Lots of lube and just a pinky a few times to see how that feels... at the right moment of course.

meh not big on mushrooms either, taste too earthy.

i just eat around it lol

so anyway, who knows i hope this guy got his wife to do anal , ppl change their minds, sometimes for the better

well now i feel like a pizza for lunch...

@vicky I understand the point your'e trying to get across but I think the trying out mushrooms/trying out anal sex comparison is like comparing Resident Evil to Call of Duty.

I'm sure at least most of you know I love anal but I also know its not for everyone. Simply put, if someone just isn't into it or not willing to try, just respect that. It's not like its the only way to have sex. Sure I love it but don't need to have it to have a good experience.

In the last nine years did she ever let you?

If so, what did she think?

Grundelson: Least active member ever on the VNA Forum. I think this is a new record.
1 post...active for less than 1 day..pretty sure he's not coming back.

I bet he and the wifey are not together anymore.

I missed this topic when it was posted BUT it seems to me the answer to that question is simple...

Buy her a strap on and tell her to take out all her pent up aggression...

That WAS the type of anal he's talking about no?

rokkerr wrote: ↑March 13th, 2022, 8:30 am I missed this topic when it was posted BUT it seems to me the answer to that question is simple...

Buy her a strap on and tell her to take out all her pent up aggression...

That WAS the type of anal he's talking about no?

I wouldn't think there would be much pain in that for her

rokkerr wrote: ↑March 13th, 2022, 8:30 am I missed this topic when it was posted BUT it seems to me the answer to that question is simple...

Buy her a strap on and tell her to take out all her pent up aggression...

That WAS the type of anal he's talking about no?

When I read this, I totally wasn't sure if he was the giver or the receiver? Haha....