The Moderators Thread

[WalterB]

Thanks, Andrew.

George, I would have kicked him out after the second request. The second would be, "Cunthunter, I asked you nicely to please change your name. If you don't, I will help you leave," or something like that. No need to repeat something several times. If you ask twice and they still don't respond, that's all you need to boot him out. You can make a comment like "That word is offensive to many and is not allowed in this cam room." You know how to handle it. My point is mainly that you don't need to wait "several times" before acting. Thanks.

[George B]

Thanks, Andrew.

George, I would have kicked him out after the second request. The second would be, "Cunthunter, I asked you nicely to please change your name. If you don't, I will help you leave," or something like that. No need to repeat something several times. If you ask twice and they still don't respond, that's all you need to boot him out. You can make a comment like "That word is offensive to many and is not allowed in this cam room." You know how to handle it. My point is mainly that you don't need to wait "several times" before acting. Thanks.

I removed him after he didn't respond, he came back with the same name and removed him again.

[WalterB]

Thanks, George.

[stickyvicky]

Sometimes I think you guys are way too uptight, I really don't think it's a big deal? Thes guys are young and they have no idea that they're being offensive. They see all the s*** on the tube sites and they are just trying to be cool.

I guess it depends on the show and the model. If you're just sitting there chatting about life in general and someone calls you a whore it's one thing, but for me when I'm in the middle of fucking myself in both holes, and someone tells me I'm a dirty little whore or a good Cum slurping little slut it turns me on! Feel free to talk dirty to me!

I guess what I'm saying is there is a right time and place for everything.

[WalterB]

Some words are pretty offensive to everyone, men AND (some) women. "Cunt" is one of those. I have experienced this for many years. Calling a woman a Cunt is extremely derogatory. Can I lick your cunt. altho distasteful to me, is not really derogatory. I have never said a word to "cunthunter." I don't like the name, but the forum/cam shows aren't about what I think. They are about what is actually derogatory. "You're a hot little cunt" is tasteless to me, but not a reason to say anything, unless the model makes a comment regarding it.

Same with whore (or any derivatives.) Calling a woman a whore is a slap in the face, unless the model asks for it. Carmen is totally loose. You can call her a whore all day and it doesn't matter to her. She, in fact, encourages it. So did Puma.

And that's what I said. I asked for opinions. But, Mods, leave Cunthunter and Joey alone.

I'm trying to be watchful, Vicky. You don't seem to realize how fast something like that escalates. I have seen it. And I have had to scramble to try and get some ignorant asshole under control and out of the room. And I know you have seen it too. If we don't maintain some sort of control, you will have all sorts of garbage coming in. The majority of the membership appreciates it when we step in and control someone. "Thanks, Admin" being the most used comment.

This is not an easy job. We see it every day, Vicky. People walking on the edge of being real assholes. And I think our moderators do a GREAT job of controlling things. We are trying to do our best. But it is your site and we appreciate your guidance.

Moderators, let things slide unless someone actually calls a model a name, usually using an adjective along with it. "You're a hot little whore" is OK (always has been.) "You're a two-bit whore" would not be. "I love your cunt" is OK (always has been.) "You're a stupid cunt," I would assume, would be offensive and rate a boot.

I have utmost respect for the women in my life, especially my friends in porn. I am so happy and excited that women have gained a large part of their place in society. Women are out there driving Mack Trucks. They are riding their own Harleys. Women are captaining commercial airliners. Women are flying jet fighters, for crissakes. When I was in Spain in the mid-'70's, women were still held in very subservient positions. Men were bank tellers. Men were waiters. Women swept the floors and took out the trash.

The 2 PM break was still popular. Businesses would close from 2 to 4 to allow the employees time to relax and eat lunch. Then, at night, the family would go out to eat and then maybe walk the streets window shopping. The woman always walked to the right rear of the man. That was her "place." In the car, the woman sat in the right rear seat. You never saw a woman driving a car (meaning very few.) I remember thinking in 1976 "Wow, these people are still living in the 1850's."

I am proud that the women in my life are out there doing whatever they want. They are still women, but continue to strive to be equals in society. All of the hatred and anger in today's world really puts me off. I think that EVERYONE deserves basic courtesy and respect. You don't have to say "Sir" to me (I prefer "Walt,") but a little courtesy is always appreciated. One particular woman hurt me quite badly several years ago (she was my high school sweetheart.) Once we re-found each other in 2002, I fully expected to marry her. It didn't work out. I will never have another thing to do with her. But I will never call her anything disrespectful. Same goes for my ex-wife.

It's not easy, guys. Just do your best. But, please let it slide unless someone is being specifically slanderous to a model. I have asked before, if you have to ban someone, please put a concise reason in the ban reason box. And, if you're not sure, Whisper to the model. Ask her if so-and-so is bothering here. Ask her in the form of a question, and (she can't whisper back to you) to reply yes or no. I don't know what else to do.

[stickyvicky]

I know it's actually a nightmare I don't think I would want to be an admin haha, you guys are doing an amazing job and we all appreciate you so much we are lucky to have you. xoxo

[WalterB]

OK, I give up. If sweet, innocent Roxie has no worries (wait, innocent? ) then I'm hopelessly lost,
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[Andrew35]

she's right about the awards. Yeah Jewell used it in a video I was watching on her site, but I think a time and place and if the model is using it. Also depends if it's in fun or jest. Still I wouldn't use it though lol

[WalterB]

Had a fellow, Tony on mobile, who posted a couple links to pornHub, regarding the model who was on line. Generally we do not allow external links. Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, Onlyfans, sites such as these, are fine. These are links that the model uses to enhance her income. But PornHub, for example, is a no-no.,

We may not always know if a site is a good one or not. But, I think we know when a site is a social help for the model and when it's just a porn site posting probably stolen content.

If/when someone posts a link to an external site such as PornHub, a simple "JoeBlow, we do not allow links to external websites. Thanks for understanding" should be sufficient. If he posts another, just mute him, then follow standard procedure as necessary.

[carl goldfinger]

I know it's actually a nightmare I don't think I would want to be an admin haha, you guys are doing an amazing job and we all appreciate you so much we are lucky to have you. xoxo

Walts long post about 'cunts & co'.... over the years as a moderator I have learned to stay cool.... Oh Yes!
And I learned to manage a chatroom on my own way > means > I hold the leash slacky, but I also keep the members informed that some authority is in the room, by welcoming everyone one by one. When I see someone typing derogatory words, I first check if it is pointed to the cam girl or members. If yes I proceed as recommended with a warning, a mute, a kick, or a ban, followed by a short comment > means > I pull the leash a few times and/or add a muzzle.
If no, I let it flow or sometimes I write something to be more polite here...
If someone is mean to me, I stay cool as well... I'm the lightning rod and I'm certified for millions of Volts.
Puma and Carmen are very special, of course. For their shows you need a very long, slacky leash
Dammit! It's very long ago that I even muted somebody... can't remember ... next time I'll try Walt to get some practice

To be a moderator here over the past 10 year was and is one of the best jobs I ever had.
I want to thank you, Vicky, Walt and my colleagues...

Carl

[stickyvicky]

Thank you for being here Carl! We all appreciate you!

[WalterB]

I won't make my afternoon shows today. Will be busy. If any mods would like to step up and cover, I know it would be appreciated by the ladies.

[WalterB]

Got my stuff done way early (buying a car) so it looks like I'll be there after all.

[stickyvicky]

I hope you will post pics of your new car! Take pictures of carvana delivering it I've never seen that!

[WalterB]

It's coming from Indianapolis. So it'll probably be another couple of weeks, at least. They say 5-15 days from the time it's all approved. They just took my down payment this morning, so it'll be a while yet. I'm hoping that the down payment is the last step.

I was hoping to find one of those "vending machines" they advertise. That is kind of silly, but cool, too. But there's not one that close. My guess is it'll show up on one of those large car-haulers you see out on the freeway. I'll have to find a place he can get to where I can meet him. I've already alerted the kid next door I may need a ride, lol.

This is the one. I love White out here in the desert Southwest. Helps keep the car a lot cooler in the hot desert sun.
https://www.carvana.com/vehicle/1639679

[stickyvicky]

Camry's are great! They last forever!

[WalterB]

Yes, they do. That's what I'm counting on, lol. Longer than me and I'll be happy, lol.

[Andrew35]

we have one of those Carvana vending machines, always wanted to go and get a car from that.

[WalterB]

Moderators, when a member is having problems in the cam room, please direct them to this forum and the topic "Cam Room Facts and Help" It is right at the top, and contains numerous help posts.

A number of the problems are apparently caused by bugs in the system. For example, a members cam not showing up on the Members Cam row. Or maybe a name not showing up on the members cam window. These problems happen randomly. A members cam will show up on some pages and not on others. This includes the models page. If the member will refresh his browser page, most times that problem will be fixed.

But, please, if members are having problems, ask them to refresh their browser page (not the models window. Refresh that if the model freezes.) Then please direct them to the forum and that topic. If you will mention logging out using the provided link, it will take them right there.

Thanks

[lance_s]

Camry's are great! They last forever!

Yes, but they are as dull as ditchwater (I think). And about as exciting. I know reliability is important - but I'd pick a Honda over its Toyota equivalent.

Toyotas remind me of they lawyer in Rat Race - they have had every vestige of personality engineered out to support statistical market research. It obviously works, they sell a lot of cars and make a lot of money, but just not for me.

The new Toyota's are a more snazzy looking, I will admit. Unfortunately, its a style of snazz I don't care for. And for personal reasons, Toyota are never getting a penny of my money.