Shanda and Bondage??? What do you think

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ShandaFay
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June 26th, 2013, 4:16 am

CGYMike got me an awesome birthday gift and it has to do with bondage so I am interested in what you guys like to see when you think of BDSM?
I seriously love the PVC and Latex used in shooting bondage some of the outfits are a work of art themselves! But you can't find that kind of stuff in my city I would have to order anything like that.

let me know your thoughts :mrcool:
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June 26th, 2013, 7:48 pm

I'm all for the illusion of control in the "dominant" "submissive" relationship or bedroom play. It can be a real turn on to "give yourself" up to someone but you have to set boundaries and those boundaries have to be adhered to otherwise the trust between the parties is damaged permanently. You cannot un-ring a bell. Thats where "safe words" come into play too.

I'm not into excessive pain either..some videos of men getting caned or kicked with stilettos might be a turn on for some but not for me. Light spanking or whipping with toys can be erotic but when skin is broken and permanent damage is inflicted is where I draw the line.

Nothing would be more of a turn on at least for me to see someone like Shanda walk into a room in full leather gear, thigh-high boots, and a flogging toy (mild version) and tell me exactly what to do and how long to do it. (remember this the next time you come over for coffee)

my two cents worth...great topic

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ShandaFay
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July 1st, 2013, 9:40 pm

LOL Mike I shall remember that!

I actually am always been the dominant one in any sexual encounter I have had so for me this is intriguing in away that I can finally just maybe let go and let Nix take complete control of me! Like many fantasies I have had...mmmmmmmm!
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July 1st, 2013, 10:10 pm

Hmmmmm.......
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July 7th, 2013, 2:50 am

Hmmmmmmmmmm.......too
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September 6th, 2013, 7:00 pm

I am planning something with the bondage it's gonna be HOT!!!!!!
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September 6th, 2013, 7:15 pm

I sent you a PM about this but you apparently never got it.
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September 24th, 2013, 4:32 am

Walt I will check on that.....
SO I posted a video about my new series called Shanda and BDSM. I have to say my first attempt didn't go as I planned Nix got me too horny for his cock...lol But I'm already thinking up my next video for this series and he won't be getting away as easy as he did.
I have also liked ...lol getting spanked so we will be doing some those videos as well!

Sex adventures....mmmmmmmm!
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September 24th, 2013, 4:46 am

Sex adventures.... now we're talking eh !
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December 10th, 2013, 12:37 am

.... Shanda tied up... hmmmm
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January 3rd, 2014, 4:58 am

SHanda is getting tied up very soon....some spanking is due! lol
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January 22nd, 2014, 12:59 pm

Chapter 2 was up last week....I am getting into this lol! Much more research and experimenting is needed and I intend too. I actually enjoyed being the sub for once so with this series of videos I may just end up doing that and getting everything done to me....mmmm! :spank: :shandalips:
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January 24th, 2014, 9:17 am

Shanda i love that your trying and loving bondage
for research you might check out kink.com
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January 25th, 2014, 1:35 pm

yes I know kink.com but I think my style of bondage will be different. I am not really interested in being beat to much...lol a good spanking may do me good though :spank:

thanks Wsj689
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January 25th, 2014, 2:58 pm

Love bondage is the style for our dear ShandaFay, wsj. Good, hot orgasmic Love bondage. That's the ticket.
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January 30th, 2014, 6:58 pm

Shanda,

I can't wait to see you get spanked for being such a naughty girl.
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January 31st, 2014, 4:45 pm

I think your bondage vid was great
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