Goals And Working on Things

[Andrew35]

Always, Have set some goals for this year and beyond. Also working on things. One of those is trust and trusting people-past two years I've had it rough, I had let some wall down and now the walls have went back up, just working on trusting people again.

[lance_s]

Always, Have set some goals for this year and beyond. Also working on things. One of those is trust and trusting people-past two years I've had it rough, I had let some wall down and now the walls have went back up, just working on trusting people again.

Its a difficult balancing act - you can build up walls and never be hurt, but then are you ever really living? I don't have answers, just best wishes and good luck to send your way.


Call no man foe, but never love a stranger.
Build up no plan, nor any star pursue.
Go forth with crowds; in loneliness is danger.
Thus nothing God can send,
And nothing God can do
Shall pierce your peace, my friend.
Stella Benson

[Andrew35]

Always, Have set some goals for this year and beyond. Also working on things. One of those is trust and trusting people-past two years I've had it rough, I had let some wall down and now the walls have went back up, just working on trusting people again.

Its a difficult balancing act - you can build up walls and never be hurt, but then are you ever really living? I don't have answers, just best wishes and good luck to send your way.


Call no man foe, but never love a stranger.
Build up no plan, nor any star pursue.
Go forth with crowds; in loneliness is danger.
Thus nothing God can send,
And nothing God can do
Shall pierce your peace, my friend.
Stella Benson

Just working on things, not necessarily walls to keep people out or anything. I'm just working on trust , that's trusting that people mean what they say etc. I was really hurt last year and it's a thing that I'm having to work on.

[stickyvicky]

And that's rough... Once burned, Twice Shy ... it's all relative, everyone can be trusted to a different degree... With me people have to earn my trust.

I try to assume the best, and give people the benefit of the doubt, but at the same time I always protect myself.

I have been hurt a lot, but I have also lived a lot and learned a lot.

[Andrew35]

And that's rough... Once burned, Twice Shy ... it's all relative, everyone can be trusted to a different degree... With me people have to earn my trust.

I try to assume the best, and give people the benefit of the doubt, but at the same time I always protect myself.

I have been hurt a lot, but I have also lived a lot and learned a lot.

The biggest for me is and was, when I was had the out's with the person was things that they said that made me doubt things that they had ever said to me and made me doubt with others what they had said. I mean the thoughts of oh by what you said did you only say kind things and was proud of doing things that healthy was only to keep as a customer and only when I was throwing dollars your way were nice things, are you really genuine. But I have worked through things with the person but it really has got me where I go with anyone were you genuine or not.