Sex in public places: yay or nay?

[stickyvicky]

What do you guys think about this?

https://mikesouth.com/legal/sex-in-the- ... ion-55164/

I have to admit I didn't read the entire article. I do admit that I have had sex in public spaces here and there, although I've been super careful not to be seen. Mostly because I don't like breaking the law. I do understand the whole " The thought of getting caught makes it more exciting" And I guess it's more exciting to watch it as well especially when unknowing passerbys can be seen in the background.

The older I get though, I just don't think it's cool anymore. One person's privacy and rights ends where the next person's begins.

I don't have kids, But if I did, I wouldn't want them seeing people having sex in a public park or in a grocery store. I don't particularly want to see it myself. Am I just a prude?

I just think there is an appropriate time and place for everything, I can go to a swing club and be watching people, couples or groups fucking all over the place in front of me if I want to. I can go to a strip club and see naked women. I have that right. I think people should also have a right to not see what they don't want to see or don't want their kids to see in public.

Thoughts?

[WalterB]

...said the lady who's had sex in bathrooms all over the world, including, really, over it, You know, like in an airplane. I can just see the mommies and kids pounding on the door," Geez, hurry up in there." Then \Vicky says "Geez, I'm going as fast as I can"

I fully agree with Vicky. I like sex as much as the next guy (at least, from what I can remember, ) But there's a time and place for everything. And I don't think that "in public" is all that cool.

As they say, IMO.

[stickyvicky]

Yes but it was in the bathroom, no one could see us... yes I have done other places too, I'm sure I have, lol... actually I have bts for you from Mexico where I flashed in public places, but always super careful and honestly I don't think if a kid saw a boob, it would be traumatic, maybe seeing full on sex or bj in public is not traumatic either, guess it depends on the kid and the age? I hope I'm not being a hypocrite.

[WalterB]

I don't think so at all. Parents have the right to educate their kids any way they want. I certainly wouldn't want MY kids seeing someone in the Chips and Dip aisle in my local 7-11.

And, Vicky dear, how about in the mens room of the BW hotel in Hollywood? I think you even mentioned someone hearing you or something. But that's still not "out in public." Just like the others in the series.

In hospitals? On a cop car? If they catch him, he'll be arrested for Indecent Exposure." Not something I would want on MY record. I don't really care how much money he gets. Some day he'll be broke.

[Andrew35]

Does a Strip Club count? Done it in a few places but not a lot, one ex was a stripper so that was the strip club deal plus I was working security also while also was pro wrestler. Also I have one of those I turned her lesbian stories lol, honestly she thought she was bisexual she really wasn't I got show from her and her girlfriend once, anyway I noticed she really was more into women and I said I think you might be, anyway I convinced and her girlfriend who really didn't like me much kissed me and said thanks that she had been trying to convince her or that for a long time.

[Andrew35]

oh and I've gotten the same way about sex, really even then I wasn't big into the public, I think it was more like oh do it once type deal for the experience.

[lance_s]

Hmmmmm, (wistfully).

[TheShaft]

What do you guys think about this?

https://mikesouth.com/legal/sex-in-the- ... ion-55164/

I have to admit I didn't read the entire article. I do admit that I have had sex in public spaces here and there, although I've been super careful not to be seen. Mostly because I don't like breaking the law. I do understand the whole " The thought of getting caught makes it more exciting" And I guess it's more exciting to watch it as well especially when unknowing passerbys can be seen in the background.

The older I get though, I just don't think it's cool anymore. One person's privacy and rights ends where the next person's begins.

I don't have kids, But if I did, I wouldn't want them seeing people having sex in a public park or in a grocery store. I don't particularly want to see it myself. Am I just a prude?

I just think there is an appropriate time and place for everything, I can go to a swing club and be watching people, couples or groups fucking all over the place in front of me if I want to. I can go to a strip club and see naked women. I have that right. I think people should also have a right to not see what they don't want to see or don't want their kids to see in public.

Thoughts?

Agreed. Forcing one’s lifestyle (whatever it is) on others should not be done if it’s not welcomed. Pretty much anything is not for everybody.

[CGYMike]

Connie and I have been known to get a little %)^*##* in public on a couple of occasions. I don't think we were ever in a public place where others may have been witness to our behaviour, except in cases where that type of intimacy was part of the local landscape.

I'm not sure how I would react if I walked into a 7-11 to pickup milk and became witness to a drive-by gonzo movie.

[George B]

Stuff like this is always fun

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[mrjosh85]

Yes but it was in the bathroom, no one could see us... yes I have done other places too, I'm sure I have, lol... actually I have bts for you from Mexico where I flashed in public places, but always super careful and honestly I don't think if a kid saw a boob, it would be traumatic, maybe seeing full on sex or bj in public is not traumatic either, guess it depends on the kid and the age? I hope I'm not being a hypocrite.

Exactly. Lavatory Occupied was done in a public location but still in private. It's no worse than jerking off in your work bathroom stall when no one's around. Nor are we talking about flashing a boob discretely.

I don't like the sex in public thing. There's a pornhub model I used to watch who always took massive facials, which was amazing, but then she would walk around town with the goo all over her face and I could never watch: I was too embarrassed just as a viewer.

I don't like people who impose on others in public. I hate when I go to the beach and someone has a huge speaker blasting, forcing everyone to listen to their music. So I hate in general when other people think it's ok to make someone else uncomfortable, usually because they're oblivious to the fact given their self-absorption.

Having said that, if you want to give a BJ right in front of me, I'm 100% for that LOL

[WalterB]

Has anyone visited Kink's "Public Disgrace?" It takes place in Europe. I believe that Europe is a lot more open and forgiving than the U.S. But they take women out on the street, tied up, then strip them down and have sex on the streets. Sometimes a BJ, sometimes full-on sex. They might go to a store, a bar, or wherever with this young tied up beauty. There, the appearance is that any male customers get to join in. In practice, I would hope all the male talent has been vetted.

It was cool at first, but I've pretty much moved away from it. But as far as the street scenes are concerned, they really look like they're out on the street doing what comes naturally. People walk by and generally avoid the action. But once in awhile someone will stop and watch, lol.

[stickyvicky]

Can't believe they don't get arrested for that!

[Anthony_JK]

Well....to me, it's a nice turn on to see consensual adult sexuality flaunted so openly....but that's all it will remain: a *fantasy*. It's not worth the arrest and the bail.

Now, the closest you can get to actual "public" sex in porn is the subgenre of Japanese/Asian porn known as "chikan", where a man rubs himself against a woman. Probably could never ever happen here in the US.

In a controlled setting where outsiders are forbidden and there is no risk of arrest and everyone is consenting and willing? I say, go for it.

[lance_s]

Has anyone visited Kink's "Public Disgrace?" It takes place in Europe. I believe that Europe is a lot more open and forgiving than the U.S. But they take women out on the street, tied up, then strip them down and have sex on the streets. Sometimes a BJ, sometimes full-on sex. They might go to a store, a bar, or wherever with this young tied up beauty. There, the appearance is that any male customers get to join in. In practice, I would hope all the male talent has been vetted.

It was cool at first, but I've pretty much moved away from it. But as far as the street scenes are concerned, they really look like they're out on the street doing what comes naturally. People walk by and generally avoid the action. But once in awhile someone will stop and watch, lol.

I've seen some of those videos. I assumed that some of the more blatant scenes must have blue screened. I can't see that sort of activity being condoned even in Europe. Some of the backgrounds are public thoroughfares where there would be minors.

[WalterB]

Yes, But, even with current advances in technology, I can't believe that they are "photoshopped." My guess is that they are choosing places where no police are around, and might even have "watchers" stationed around the area. Who knows?

[lance_s]

Yes, But, even with current advances in technology, I can't believe that they are "photoshopped." My guess is that they are choosing places where no police are around, and might even have "watchers" stationed around the area. Who knows?

Maybe one of the VNA girls can infiltrate Kink to find out how they do it? (~kidding)

[Andrew35]

Doubt it was green screen, the public part could be in area where cops weren't around. Now I do believe the Public Disgrace some episodes were shot here, now when they went into the bars etc, I believe that was staged as in it was closed to the public but the people were extras. While not for Public Disgrace, as Samantha Grace about an audience extra, she said did for a few of Kink's shoots, one of them that has audience or so.

[Anthony_JK]

I'm thinking they know the good spots where the cops won't bother to intervene, and they know how to keep it quiet. Plus, they can at least pay for spotters to both hide their dirty deeds and alert for any "popo" sightings.

In any case, as long as they don't force themselves on unwilling adults or any kids, and they can avoid getting caught, more power to them. And, if that's not your kind of fetish, more power to you, too.

[Anthony_JK]

Yes, But, even with current advances in technology, I can't believe that they are "photoshopped." My guess is that they are choosing places where no police are around, and might even have "watchers" stationed around the area. Who knows?

Maybe one of the VNA girls can infiltrate Kink to find out how they do it? (~kidding)

If I recall correctly, didn't Kinkdotcom used to own the San Francisco Armory as their studio? That's a pretty big place, where you can basically get away with doing pretty much anything, even on the outside.