Question for the ladies here!

[stickyvicky]

If you are female and a member of any of the vna or vnalive sites... and you like women:

When did you realise that you liked women? How old were you and what happened?

I 1st realised that I might be bisexual when I was surprised to find my pussy wet when I was watching Lynda Carter as Wonder Woman on TV! I was probably around 12 years old.....

I also had a cousin in Norway, who had a stash of magazines hidden inside a secret storage place in his room. He was about 5 years older than me, but he showed me his magazines - we would sit and read them together.... I actually never liked this cousin at all, but I liked his magazines haha.... I used to love when we would get to his house, and he wasn't home... the grownups would tell me to go play in his room while they had coffee and chatted downstairs...... I was happy to oblige.... such a good well behaved girl.....

[LizLemon85]

For me, there wasn't a certain moment when I realized "I like women", it's always been that way ever since I can remember.
My friends started dating boys in school and I just thought "Eww, why would you want to do that ?".
I had crushes, but it never crossed my mind to date girls, that just wasn't an option when/where I grew up.

There was this super awkward russian band called "Tatu". I don't know about the US, but they were huuuuge in Europe, I went to see them live with a few friends, we talked about it, and I realized that there actually were "others", like me, in real life, shocking
I had the courage to come out and had a 5 year relationship with a woman.
In hindsight, I don't get why almost everyone was so super surprised about that, with the Xena posters and everything

[Hornylady9]

The earliest I can remember thinking about women in a sexual way was when I was either 9 or 10! It would always be a stranger I would see and never see again but I would have sexual thoughts about them. I didn't have anyone I could talk to or say anything. In my family it was not accepted when I grew up so I never experienced anything with a woman. Julia was the 1st lady that I openly admitted that I had sexual thoughts about ladies. I was 53 years young! That's when I started going to more VNA shows and it has been a great time every since. Then I went to Hedo and that's a different story!!

Zany

[stickyvicky]

I love women and love everything about women except one thing! They are really complicated and so much harder to figure out than men!

I swear I never know what they are really thinking! They think one thing and say another! They confuse the fuck out of me!

Men are so simple! They are either hungry or horny. Give him a sandwich or a blowjob and let him watch the game and life is good! That's it that's all! Simple!

Women are a nightmare! Lol...... I love to lick pussy and have fun with them though!

I know I'm gonna get killed for saying this....lol.... feel free to jump all over me Liz and Zany!

[lance_s]

I love women and love everything about women except one thing! They are really complicated and so much harder to figure out than men!

I swear I never know what they are really thinking! They think one thing and say another! They confuse the fuck out of me!

Men are so simple! They are either hungry or horny. Give him a sandwich or a blowjob and let him watch the game and life is good! That's it that's all! Simple!

Women are a nightmare! Lol...... I love to lick pussy and have fun with them though!

I know I'm gonna get killed for saying this....lol.... feel free to jump all over me Liz and Zany!

My ex used to say that gay men would make the best partners for women. Anyone have any comments, thoughts or ideas?

[Hornylady9]

I love women and love everything about women except one thing! They are really complicated and so much harder to figure out than men!

I swear I never know what they are really thinking! They think one thing and say another! They confuse the fuck out of me!

Men are so simple! They are either hungry or horny. Give him a sandwich or a blowjob and let him watch the game and life is good! That's it that's all! Simple!

Women are a nightmare! Lol...... I love to lick pussy and have fun with them though!

I know I'm gonna get killed for saying this....lol.... feel free to jump all over me Liz and Zany!

You are so right Vicky!! I can't argue with you on this.

Zany

[AlyGirl.]

The earliest I can remember thinking about women in a sexual way was when I was either 9 or 10! It would always be a stranger I would see and never see again but I would have sexual thoughts about them. I didn't have anyone I could talk to or say anything. In my family it was not accepted when I grew up so I never experienced anything with a woman. Julia was the 1st lady that I openly admitted that I had sexual thoughts about ladies. I was 53 years young! That's when I started going to more VNA shows and it has been a great time every since. Then I went to Hedo and that's a different story!!

Zany

This makes so much sense to me. Out of curiosity, were these strangers in your peer group? Growing up I was never attracted to girls I knew or that were my age. I think this, combined with the fact that my family was also unaccepting, is why I found my sexuality so confusing. I'd see women like 10 years older than me and just think, do I want to be you/look like you or do I want to fuck you...probably both.
Julia's a gem. I remember watching an interview of hers when I was quite young (I mean 18 *wink) where she said she liked men 60% and women 40%... I literally cried, couldn't believe I was allowed to be sexually attracted to both sexes, but different amounts.

ZANYYYYY take me to Hedo! lol

[AlyGirl.]

I love women and love everything about women except one thing! They are really complicated and so much harder to figure out than men!

I swear I never know what they are really thinking! They think one thing and say another! They confuse the fuck out of me!

Men are so simple! They are either hungry or horny. Give him a sandwich or a blowjob and let him watch the game and life is good! That's it that's all! Simple!

Women are a nightmare! Lol...... I love to lick pussy and have fun with them though!

I know I'm gonna get killed for saying this....lol.... feel free to jump all over me Liz and Zany!

My ex used to say that gay men would make the best partners for women. Anyone have any comments, thoughts or ideas?

OOOOOH, so this is why I'm always falling for the gayest of gay men! Shit...

[lance_s]

I love women and love everything about women except one thing! They are really complicated and so much harder to figure out than men!

I swear I never know what they are really thinking! They think one thing and say another! They confuse the fuck out of me!

Men are so simple! They are either hungry or horny. Give him a sandwich or a blowjob and let him watch the game and life is good! That's it that's all! Simple!

Women are a nightmare! Lol...... I love to lick pussy and have fun with them though!

I know I'm gonna get killed for saying this....lol.... feel free to jump all over me Liz and Zany!

My ex used to say that gay men would make the best partners for women. Anyone have any comments, thoughts or ideas?

OOOOOH, so this is why I'm always falling for the gayest of gay men! Shit...

You mean to say that you're validating her theory??!!!

[stickyvicky]

lol... what did I start here? hee hee....

[LizLemon85]

Okay, so obviously I'm a bit slow on the uptake right now but why would a gay man be a perfect match for a straight woman? That would mean I would be the perfect partner for a straight guy? I mean on the last dating site, there were plenty of guys, who tried to convince me that that's true , but seriously what am I missing here?

[lance_s]

Okay, so obviously I'm a bit slow on the uptake right now but why would a gay man be a perfect match for a straight woman? That would mean I would be the perfect partner for a straight guy? I mean on the last dating site, there were plenty of guys, who tried to convince me that that's true , but seriously what am I missing here?

I don't think it works as a symmetric swap Liz. I think my ex was referring to a subgroup of gay men that are stereotyped as prissy and effeminate.

[lance_s]

lol... what did I start here? hee hee....

Yes, indeed! Spank, spank?

[ErikB]

Okay, so obviously I'm a bit slow on the uptake right now but why would a gay man be a perfect match for a straight woman? That would mean I would be the perfect partner for a straight guy? I mean on the last dating site, there were plenty of guys, who tried to convince me that that's true , but seriously what am I missing here?

I don't think it works as a symmetric swap Liz. I think my ex was referring to a subgroup of gay men that are stereotyped as prissy and effeminate.

I have been thinking about this thread for a few days. I remember watching this special, but the last time I looked for it on youtube the only thing I could find was split into 4 parts. Now I can't find the 4 part version, but there is a single version that covers most of what I remember. It is about a woman, Norah Vincent, who wanted to find out about the world of men. She herself is a lesbian. She contacted a makeup artist and took voice and acting classes, created a male character, and used him to experience different male group situations. I don't want to give it all away, but I think most of the issues posted here are addressed in this special. This is probably the third time I've watched it and I still find it interesting.

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[Hornylady9]

The earliest I can remember thinking about women in a sexual way was when I was either 9 or 10! It would always be a stranger I would see and never see again but I would have sexual thoughts about them. I didn't have anyone I could talk to or say anything. In my family it was not accepted when I grew up so I never experienced anything with a woman. Julia was the 1st lady that I openly admitted that I had sexual thoughts about ladies. I was 53 years young! That's when I started going to more VNA shows and it has been a great time every since. Then I went to Hedo and that's a different story!!

Zany

This makes so much sense to me. Out of curiosity, were these strangers in your peer group? Growing up I was never attracted to girls I knew or that were my age. I think this, combined with the fact that my family was also unaccepting, is why I found my sexuality so confusing. I'd see women like 10 years older than me and just think, do I want to be you/look like you or do I want to fuck you...probably both.
Julia's a gem. I remember watching an interview of hers when I was quite young (I mean 18 *wink) where she said she liked men 60% and women 40%... I literally cried, couldn't believe I was allowed to be sexually attracted to both sexes, but different amounts.

ZANYYYYY take me to Hedo! lol

The strangers were ladies older than me but I was a teenager at the time. Never happened after age 19. I thought about women but never anyone I saw. Most of my thought were just about the female body and I can't tell what age. I spent a lot of time hiding my thoughts and avoiding them instead enjoying them.

AlyGirl, look up the Hedo site and look up the groups that go. I am sure you will find one you may like to go with. It's a great vacation.

Zany

[ErikB]

I just realized that I can use this here as well as over on the General Video Fun thread.

Men aren't just either hungry or horny. Somethimes we're both! (Horngry?)

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